Fuck Yeah, Bad RPer Polar Bear!
We've all been there – cringing over fellow roleplayers' terrible grammar and language use, and the general failtasticness of their behavior and characters. This is why we decided to create Bad RPer Polar Bear, to act as sort of a support group for all of our ranting needs.

Feel free to rant in the form of a meme, or submit a story about your experiences.

Please note: If you want your submission to be anonymous, you MUST log out before submitting it.
[[MORE]]Seriously I’ve seen many reblogs and people talking about the submissions to the blog where people blame the person who got sexually harassed by another user instead of the person who did the harassing. 
Someone on here said to blame the mun of one of the submissions for “inviting sexual anons” upon their underaged character because they got one anon. For that person’s information the submitter of that didn’t actually use the anon they were sent.
Another person reposted the meme talking about the muse being asleep and their mun wanting the submitter to sexually assault their muse in a forum. The roleplayers there called the submitter “not man enough” and said the sumbitter “didn’t get that it’s okay as long as the person doesn’t wake up.” 
These aren’t the only examples but I’m too disgusted to talk about them all. 

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Posted on July 31 with 1 note at 1:43 pm
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India as in the Republic of India. It’s a country in South Asia.
You might of seen it on a map of Asia. 

India as in the Republic of India. It’s a country in South Asia.

You might of seen it on a map of Asia. 

Posted on July 31 with 15 notes at 10:17 am
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This is a story about how you should listen to others when they warn you about dangerous actions; Whether it be jumping into a vat of acid, walking into rabid bear territory… Or engaging terrible RPers with terrible attitudes.

For hidden identites’ sake, the crazy in question will be B, my best friend will be T, and my other buddy will be J. For protected identity of the characters, a certain unplayed character will be Pizza, my characters will be Bel, Swiss, and Cheddar, (can you feel the theme naming?) and her character will be Ursula (after a witch with the same name)

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Posted on July 30 with 9 notes at 5:09 pm
#bad rper polar bear  #story  #rp  #nsfw  #trigger warning  #tw  #submission 

To clarify, this is also someone who has made my experience in a certain fandom one of the shittiest RP experiences ever. She is unable to take jokes or criticism, and if you so much as jokingly reply to her starter on omegle with “*throws water at*” she will use that to get sympathy. I swear she has a notebook of interactions (and IP addresses) on top of submitting every little thing she goes through on chatzy and omegle to here OUT OF CONTEXT.
She will rant and rave about trigger warnings, but has only recently begun putting triggers on her own posts (after horrifically triggering at least two people) but will claim “I ALWAYS put triggers! Why can’t people do the same for me?” 
If you suggest she play any character other than the one she plays now, this will be the immediate response: “I thought this was a safe place. But apparently not. Goodbye, friends in this room, hopefully I’ll meet you somewhere else.” 
All in all, this RPer gets on every last one of my nerves. 

To clarify, this is also someone who has made my experience in a certain fandom one of the shittiest RP experiences ever. She is unable to take jokes or criticism, and if you so much as jokingly reply to her starter on omegle with “*throws water at*” she will use that to get sympathy. I swear she has a notebook of interactions (and IP addresses) on top of submitting every little thing she goes through on chatzy and omegle to here OUT OF CONTEXT.

She will rant and rave about trigger warnings, but has only recently begun putting triggers on her own posts (after horrifically triggering at least two people) but will claim “I ALWAYS put triggers! Why can’t people do the same for me?” 

If you suggest she play any character other than the one she plays now, this will be the immediate response: “I thought this was a safe place. But apparently not. Goodbye, friends in this room, hopefully I’ll meet you somewhere else.” 

All in all, this RPer gets on every last one of my nerves. 

Posted on July 27 with 16 notes at 3:26 am
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It was over the same subject too-an immortal male loving a mortal female.

It was over the same subject too-an immortal male loving a mortal female.

Posted on July 26 with 10 notes at 1:43 pm
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I’ve had one too many flashbacks of more horrid moments in my life because some people can’t simply type “trigger warning: X”

I’ve had one too many flashbacks of more horrid moments in my life because some people can’t simply type “trigger warning: X”

Posted on July 24 with 5 notes at 1:43 pm
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[[MORE]]Maybe it’s because those two things aren’t really comparable, and doing so is actually kind of offensive since homophobes often claim that if gay people are allowed to have relationships/respect, the same thing would have to be given to incestuous people? Or that incest is very triggering for many people, since more often than not, it involves rape and abusive relationships?
And no, them being cats doesn’t really excuse it. First of all, there’s a ton of open male characters in the group. Animals know how to avoid fucking up the gene pool. I’m pretty sure that in a realistic setting, your cat would rather go for a strong, not-closely-related male than her practically teenage brother. These characters are immensely anthropomorphized, too. If we can easily put them in human bodies under moderately changed circumstances due to their personality and morals, that makes it fucked up.

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Posted on July 18 with 8 notes at 1:43 pm
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what a mess

I am in a roleplay group for a 42 year old show. To hide the characters’s identities, I’ve changed their names to Beetle Bailey characters. (Both are military series, so…)

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Posted on July 17 with 5 notes at 5:09 pm
#bad rper polar bear  #story  #submission  #sexism tw  #nsfw  #slut shaming tw  #sexual conduct tw  #trans phobia tw  #racism tw 

Not really much of a story to add to this. I’m in a roleplay with gray morality, there are no good guys or bad guys since in the canon universe there are no good or bad characters, much like real people.
Enter new guy who creates a character who declares wars, assaults people, tortures people, cuts medication with poison … and why? Because he’s character is ‘just evil’. There’s no character driven motivation for any of this, they don’t even really enjoy doing any of it they’re just evil. I mean we have characters that do these things, humans and aliens alike, but they actually have a reason and motivation for everything they do.
It might be fun to rp anyway except all the mun EVER talks about is how unique and creative he is for his generic, over-the-top baddie. It’s an incredible turn off rp-wise. If when I try to plot with you all I get is post after post about how awesome you are for creating our fandom’s first real defined villain I won’t want to plot with you. There’s probably a reason why no one’s made a character like that before you, don’t you think?

Not really much of a story to add to this. I’m in a roleplay with gray morality, there are no good guys or bad guys since in the canon universe there are no good or bad characters, much like real people.

Enter new guy who creates a character who declares wars, assaults people, tortures people, cuts medication with poison … and why? Because he’s character is ‘just evil’. There’s no character driven motivation for any of this, they don’t even really enjoy doing any of it they’re just evil. I mean we have characters that do these things, humans and aliens alike, but they actually have a reason and motivation for everything they do.

It might be fun to rp anyway except all the mun EVER talks about is how unique and creative he is for his generic, over-the-top baddie. It’s an incredible turn off rp-wise. If when I try to plot with you all I get is post after post about how awesome you are for creating our fandom’s first real defined villain I won’t want to plot with you. There’s probably a reason why no one’s made a character like that before you, don’t you think?

Posted on July 17 with 9 notes at 1:43 pm
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Posted on July 16 with 27 notes at 1:43 pm
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